God Is with Us!

~By Metropolitan Saba (Isper)

For Your Nativity, O Master, the world celebrates, homes and streets sparkle with lights, and cities put on joyful attire, as do the stores and malls.

For Your Nativity, my Master, people exchange gifts and wish each other a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
For Your Nativity, my Master, churches, organizations, and associations are busy with celebrations, concerts, bazaars, theatrical and scouting performances, and entertaining Christmas events.

For Your Nativity, my Master, everyone is busy and merry.
Indeed, everyone is busy and merry, my child, but not necessarily because of Me, the reason for the feast. Rather, they are occupied by what you generally call “Christmas.” Don’t you see that I am absent from almost everything people do for My birth?

Yes, Master. Most of us take the opportunity of your birthday to rejoice, not in You, but in what pleases him.

They replace Me, My child, with so many things, for those who have not experienced the joy and peace of My presence in their lives imagine that they can find them somewhere else.

People are still afraid of Your presence in them, because Your presence changes them. They fear change, O Lord.
I know, My child. However, I came only to be life for you—or rather, to give you the fullness of life. I rejoice when I see you joyful, especially when the outward manifestation of the festivities reflects the purity, love, and virtues that your souls carry.

I came to illumine your hearts and minds, not for you to settle for lighting up your streets.

I came, My child, to be the greatest gift to you, and how I wished you would offer yourselves to Me as gifts as you exchange presents on My birthday!

I came to give you the joy of My eternal presence among you and within you, as you try to find joy in everything through Me. Didn’t the angels proclaim to you through the shepherds, “I bring you great joy… a Savior was born for you?”

I came to give you steadfast peace, which none of the evils of the world will be able to shake. Yet you are still afraid of and forgetful of My peace, and I see that you are pursuing it everywhere except in My true presence in you.

I see you adorning your homes and yards immeasurably more than you adorn your souls, as is expected of you by the Gospel that I handed to you.

I did not come to become some kind of brand—even one that carries My name—or to increase the income of industry and trade. I came to you and shared My life with you to the point of death, so that you would share what you have with the needy and poor.

I filled the earth on which I walked with acts of love and tenderness, lest anyone among you might die of cold, lacking the warmth of love.

What is it that you are so concerned about, more and more, with all that keeps you away from the essentials and makes you settle for ephemera!

My child, you are afraid of change toward the better and the perfect! Don’t you want to be freed from your fragility, through which the storms of this life, however feeble, cast you right and left and toss you into sadness and despair!

On My feast, I want you to cleanse your hearts, My children, not just your homes. I want you to put Me on and become like Me: anointed ones who fill the earth with eternal joy, love, and peace. I want you to be pure and innocent, so that I can find a dwelling place with you. I want you to share with the poor, as I did when I was among you.

I want you to become apostles who continue My message.

What benefit do you get from glittering appearances if your hearts remain dark?

Do you spend money on external adornments, while you are stingy with the sweetness and beauty that come from within you, which are truly within you?

On this feast, while people are under pressure due to the deteriorating economy, environment, and climate, how I wish you would realize the importance of sharing the blessings you have, no matter how few; that you would spend on the poor and needy; that you would visit the sick, the elderly, and the forgotten; that you would comfort the bereaved, the miserable, and the depressed. How happy I am when I see you proclaim, through your behavior, My compassion and embrace of humanity.
I want your hands to deliver My gifts and your hearts to continue warming the world with My love. I want your actions to console the bereaved, give hope to those in despair, and offer My friendship to the forgotten.
I want you to continue My work, so that the world knows that I am with it.

Open your hearts to change, and don’t remain as you are. Make the memory of My birth a true birth for yourselves. Renew yourselves, purify yourselves, return to Me, and you will find life for yourselves.

Do not dig wells for yourselves that do not hold water and leave Me, the living spring.

Do not replace Me with rituals, for without Me they will keep you in death.

Do not forget that I am still standing, knocking at your doors, waiting for you to open them for Me, so I may enter and dine with you.

Looking Ahead at St Mary (Mar 27 – Apr 3)

Beloved in Christ,

Below you will find this week’s schedule, as well as some important notes about upcoming events.

THIS WEEK: April 2 – April 10, 2023
This Week: Lenten Fast on all days of the week; wine/oil allowed on Sat/Sun; fish allowed on Palm Sunday.      

  • Sun, Apr 2 at 6:00 pm – 20/40 Fellowship @ Blaise Webster (803 S Elizabeth)
  • Mon, Apr 3 – NO SERVICES AT ST MARY (Fr Aaron Out of Town)
  • Wed, Apr 5 at 6:00 pm – 9th Hour, Typika, & Pre-Sanctified Liturgy w/Meal Following @ St George
  • Fri, Apr 7 at 6:00 pm – Little Compline w/Canon of St Lazarus
  • Sat, Apr 8 at 8:15 am – Matins ~ Lazarus Saturday
  • Sat, Apr 8 at 9:00 am – Divine Liturgy ~ Lazarus Saturday
  • Sat, Apr 8 at 10:15 am – Continental Breakfast & Decorate Church for Palm Sunday
  • Sat, Apr 8 at 12:30 pm – Children’s Day @ The Chancery (see details linked below)
  • Sat, Apr 8 at 4:00 pm – Confession
  • Sat, Apr 8 at 5:00 pm – Great Vespers ~ Palm Sunday
  • Sun, Apr 9 at 8:45 am – Matins ~ Palm Sunday
  • Sun, Apr 9 at 9:00 am – Church School
  • Sun, Apr 9 at 10:00 am – Divine Liturgy w/Palm Sunday Procession
  • Sun, Apr 9 at 5:00 pm – Confession
  • Sun, Apr 9 at 6:00 pm – Bridegroom Matins
  • Mon, Apr 10 at 8:00 am – Pre-Sanctified Liturgy
  • Mon, Apr 10 at 5:00 pm – Confession
  • Mon, Apr 10 at 6:00 pm – Bridegroom Matins

Other Notes
(1) CHILDREN’S DAY AT THE CHANCERY: We will once again have a special Children’s Day at the Chancery for Lazarus Saturday on Saturday, April 8, from 12:30 – 3:00 pm. Please see the linked flyer for details, including items for The Treehouse.

(2) HOLY WEEK SERVICES: Holy Week is by far the most important week in the life of the Church. It begins this year on Friday evening, April 7, and concludes with the celebration of Great & Holy Pascha (April 16 this year). I highly encourage all our parishioners to plan ahead and to prioritize church attendance during that week. While all services are important, the greatest priority should be given to the evening services, and most especially as we get to Holy Wednesday and beyond. These services are our annual opportunity to deeply reflect and meditate on the work of Christ for our salvation, and to celebrate His glorious Resurrection.

(3) DECORATING THE CHURCH: On both April 8 (Lazarus Saturday) and April 15 (Great & Holy Saturday), we will have a light breakfast following Liturgy. We will then decorate the church for Palm Sunday and Pascha, respectively. Everyone is welcome and encouraged to join.

(4) PASCHAL BANQUET: For this year’s Paschal Banquet, the parish will be providing fried chicken tenders. We ask all our parishioners to bring a side dish and/or dessert to share with others. As always, people are also welcome to bring their own basket of some of their favorite goodies.

(5) TEACH ME THY STATUTES PODCAST: If you would like to listen to this week’s Teach Me Thy Statutes podcast (with Fr Aaron & Jason Ewertt), you can find it here: https://tmts.transistor.fm/.

(6) PASTORAL VISITS: If you would like a pastoral visit for any reason, or if you know of a family member/parishioner who needs a visit, please feel free to contact me via cell phone at 204-6725.

Yours in Christ,

Fr Aaron
Lazarus Saturday Lazarus Saturday

Looking Ahead at St Mary (Dec 11- Dec 18)

Beloved in Christ,

Below you will find this week’s schedule, as well as some important notes about upcoming events.

THIS WEEK: December 11 – 18, 2022

This Week: The Advent Fast Began Tuesday, November 15, and continues through Divine Liturgy on Saturday, December 24.       

  • Sun, Dec 11 at 5:00 pm – Christmas Program & Potluck
  • Mon, Dec 12 at 6:00 pm – Belles Christmas Party @ Kallails’ (13213 Bridlewood Ct.)
  • Wed, Dec 14 at 6:00 pm – Advent Paraklesis
  • Thurs, Dec 15 at 5:30 pm – Parish Council Meeting
  • Fri, Dec 16 – Scroll on Website
  • Sat, Dec 17 at 4:30 pm – Confession
  • Sat, Dec 17 at 5:00 pm – Great Vespers
  • Sun, Dec 18 at 9:00 am – Church School
  • Sun, Dec 18 at 9:00 am – Matins
  • Sun, Dec 18 at 10:00 am – Divine Liturgy w/Baptisms, Chrismations, and Installation of 2023 Parish Council
  • Sun, Dec 18 – Scroll in Foyer

Other Notes

(1) ADVENT FAST: The Advent/Christmas Fast begins on November 15. During this season we will celebrate the Advent Paraklesis (Supplication) Service several times. During the Advent Fast, we abstain from meat & dairy products. However, fish, wine and oil are allowed on all days of the week except Mon/Wed/Fri.

 

(2) METROPOLITAN ANTONIOS VISIT: His Eminence, Metropolitan Antonios, our Patriarchal Vicar of the Archdiocese, plans to visit Wichita Monday, Dec 19 – Tuesday, Dec 20. We will celebrate Great Vespers with him @ St George on Dec 19 at 6:00 pm. The following evening @ St George we will have Daily Vespers at 6:45 pm and a “Meet & Greet” reception with him immediately following.

 

(3) BELLES CHRISTMAS PARTY: All women of the church are invited to The Belles of St. Mary annual Christmas Party on Monday, December 12. The party will be held at the home of Dn.  James and Sh. Rosemary at 6:00 p.m. The address is 13213 Bridlewood Ct., Wichita.  Please bring a Lenten dish to share at the potluck dinner. No need to bring a gift.

(4) TEEN FUNDRAISER: Our teens are having a Christmas fundraiser. Please note: The deadline to order is Tuesday, December 13.

(5) POTLUCK COFFEE HOUR HELP NEEDED: Beginning in January 2023 we will be having a monthly Potluck Coffee Hour. Normally, these will be held the first Sunday of the month unless there is a holiday or unless a parishioner wishes to host coffee hour in memory or honor of a loved one (please contact Fr Aaron to request). Our first such coffee hour will be Sunday, January 8. For these coffee hours, we need two volunteers to oversee the setup and clean up. These duties would primarily consist of preparing the coffee and cleaning it up, setting out plates and silverware, and serving utensils. Everyone is asked to help with clean up, cleaning tables, washing any utensils, etc. This is a wonderful opportunity for people to help with coffee hour who normally do not volunteer because of concerns about feeding the entire parish! If you would like to volunteer to help and you do not know what to do, please let Fr Aaron know and we will train you. You may sign up in the Holy Bread book that is kept in the church hall. There is a place to sign up on each of the planned Potluck Coffee Hour dates.

(6) TEACH ME THY STATUTES PODCAST: If you would like to listen to this week’s Teach Me Thy Statutes podcast (with Fr Aaron & Jason Ewertt), you can find it here: https://tmts.transistor.fm/.

(7) PASTORAL VISITS: If you would like a pastoral visit for any reason, or if you know of a family member/parishioner who needs a visit, please feel free to contact me via cell phone at 204-6725.

Yours in Christ,

Fr Aaron

 

Sermons: October 30, 2022: (5th Sunday of Luke)

Offered by Father John Baize.

Sermon: September 4, 2022: 12th Sunday After Pentecost – Plus Met Joseph Accusations

Offered by Father Aaron Warwick.

Sermon: August 21, 2022: 08-21-2022: 10th Sunday After Pentecost

Offered by Father Aaron Warwick.

Looking Ahead at St Mary (April 4 – 11)

Beloved in Christ,

Below you will find this week’s schedule, as well as some important notes about upcoming events.

THIS WEEK: April 4 – 11, 2022

This Week: We observe the Lenten fast on all days of the week; wine/oil allowed on Sat/Sun.      

  • Mon, Apr 4 at 6:00 pm – Great Compline
  • Wed, Apr 6 at 6:00 pm – Little Compline w/Canon of Repentance & The Life of St Mary of Egypt
  • Thurs, Apr 7 at 6:00 pm – Pre-Sanctified Liturgy w/Meal Following
  • Fri, Apr 8 at 6:00 pm – Akathist
  • Sat, Apr 9 at 8:00 am- MF Prep: Meat Pies
  • Sat, Apr 9 – Scroll Deadline
  • Sat, Apr 9 at 4:30 pm – Confession
  • Sat, Apr 9 at 5:00 pm – Great Vespers
  • Sun, Apr 10 at 9:00 am – Matins
  • Sun, Apr 10 at 9:00 am – Church School
  • Sun, Apr 10 at 10:00 am – Divine Liturgy
  • Sun, Apr 10 at 10:30 am – Catechism Class
  • Mon, Apr 11 at 6:00 pm – Great Compline

Other Notes

(1) LAZARUS SATURDAY AT THE CHANCERY: All parishioners, and most especially those with young children, are invited and encouraged to attend the annual “Children’s Day at the Chancery” on Lazarus Saturday, April 16. Details, including requested donations for The Treehouse, are below.

Lazarus Saturday Flyer

(2) PASCHAL BANQUET: For this year’s Paschal Banquet, the parish is providing fried chicken tenders. We ask all our parishioners to bring a side dish and/or dessert to share with others. As always, people are also welcome to bring their own basket of some of their favorite goodies.

(3) FESTIVAL MARKETPLACE: One of the most important aspects of our annual Mediterranean Festival is our Marketplace. While we do sell many items that are authentically “Mediterranean,” we also make rooms for lots of other baked goods/goodies that are not. As these items are donated by our parishioners, the sales from the Marketplace are pure profit to the church. We appreciate all contributions!

(4) SUMMER GARAGE SALE: The St. Mary 90th Anniversary Team will be holding a garage sale this summer to raise funds for our $25,000 goal for Wichita’s Littlest Heroes. We welcome your items for our sale! Please bring items to the church during Curt’s hours of M-F, 9:00 am – 3:00 pm. Curt knows where the items should be stored. Please do NOT bring items and leave them in the hall! Please, NO CLOTHING and NO LARGE FURNITURE PIECES. If you have questions, please contact Laura Stanley or Tracy Namee. Thank you!

(5) PARISH LIFE CONFERENCE: The Parish Life Conference this year is in Wichita (hosted by St George Cathedral). You can learn more about it and register here: https://www.antiochianevents.com/wichita. The dates are June 15 – 18 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel.

(6) TEACH ME THY STATUTES PODCAST: If you would like to listen to this week’s Teach Me Thy Statutes podcast (with Fr Aaron & Jason Ewertt), you can find it here: https://tmts.transistor.fm/.

(7) PASTORAL VISITS: If you would like a pastoral visit for any reason, or if you know of a family member/parishioner who needs a visit, please feel free to contact me via cell phone at 204-6725.

Yours in Christ,

Fr Aaron

Looking Ahead at St Mary (February 28 – March 7)

Beloved in Christ,

Below you will find this week’s schedule, as well as some important notes about upcoming events.

THIS WEEK: February 28 – March 7, 2022
This Week: We abstain from meat on all days of the week; fish, eggs, cheese, etc., allowed on all days of the week, including Wed/Fri.     

  • Tues, Mar 1 at 6:30 pm – Belles Meeting at Home of Donna & Robbie Namee (1958 N Sedgwick)
  • Sat, Mar 5 at 8:00 am – MF Prep: Make Kibbee
  • Sat, Mar 5 at 4:30 pm – Confession
  • Sat, Mar 5 at 5:00 pm – Great Vespers
  • Sun, Mar 6 at 9:00 am – Matins
  • Sun, Mar 6 at 9:00 am – Church School
  • Sun, Mar 6 at 10:00 am – Divine Liturgy
  • Sun, Mar 6 at 4:00 pm – Forgiveness Vespers & Vittles at Braum’s
  • Mon, Mar 7 at 6:00 pm – Great Compline w/Great Canon of Repentance

Other Notes

(1) “MAN OF GOD” FILM: “Man of God,” a film about the life of St Nektarios, will be showing at Regal Warren Theatre West (9150 W 21st St N, Wichita, KS 67205) on Monday, March 21, at 7:00 pm. If you would like to purchase a ticket for $13.44/person and attend with our parish, please RSVP to Fr Aaron (stmarywichita@cox.net) by Sunday, February 27. As of now, this is the only date and time for a showing in Wichita. You can view the video trailer and learn more about the movie here>

(2) THE ENCOUNTER APP: As Tracy Namee announced today, Faithtree Resources recently released an app called “The Encounter” to help us build a healthy habit of daily prayers. In addition, the free app has music available and a place to submit prayer requests. If you would like to check out this app, you can download it from the Google Play Store or from Apple’s App Store.

(3) PRE-SANCTIFIED POTLUCKS: We are thankful to have many new members, catechumens, and inquirers at our parish. We invite all of them and all our parishioners to not only attend the Pre-Sanctified services throughout Lent (as well as the many other services), but to also stay after Pre-Sanctified for our community potluck meal. Please note all items provided for the potluck should be in keeping with the Lenten fast (no meat/dairy). Parishioners may use the refrigerators/freezers for any items that need it during the service and can set out those items following the Pre-Sanctified dismissal.

(4) LENTEN RETREAT: We are excited for Dr. Brad Nassif, a son of our parish, now a professor in the Chicago area, to be our featured speaker. Please see the linked flyer for more details and be sure to share this information with your family and friends.

(5) PARISH LIFE CONFERENCE: The Parish Life Conference this year is in Wichita (hosted by St George Cathedral). You can learn more about it and register here > The dates are June 15 – 18 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel.

(6) TEACH ME THY STATUTES PODCAST: If you would like to listen to this week’s Teach Me Thy Statutes podcast (with Fr Aaron & Jason Ewertt), you can find it here>

(7) PASTORAL VISITS: If you would like a pastoral visit for any reason, or if you know of a family member/parishioner who needs a visit, please feel free to contact me via cell phone at 204-6725.

Yours in Christ,

Fr Aaron